Be healthier, happier and more confident.

Hi, I'm Tom and as a coach I specialise in working with dads. I'm no parenting super guru (just ask my own kids) and I can't promise to transform you into the bestesterest dad ever, but I am here to help you tap into your 'spirit of dadventure' as you navigate your unique path through fatherhood.
* I also work with lots of other people including mums and young adults.
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I feel ten feet tall and I'm normally 5'7 so I'm feeling great!

Small Business Owner
Lower North Shore, Sydney

Tom has helped me change my attitude towards alcohol and I am now able to drink in moderation.

(Ex)Boozey Dad
Northern Beaches, Sydney

Tom got me back on track... not just training, but really enjoying my running again.

Ultra Runner
Northern Beaches, Sydney

Fatherhood is one of life's great adventures, but it may not always feel that way!

As a father myself, I know that dadding can be a rewarding experience. But, it can also be pretty tough at times! When I was facing my own challenges I created a self-coaching program for myself and called it my Big Dadventure.

Today I help other dads on their own Dadventure journey by empowering you to activate previously untapped sources of imagination, productivity and leadership, allowing you to be the kind of father you want to be.

Signs that you may need help on your Dadventure

Stress & Overwhelm

Every day as a father comes with its stresses and surprises. Are you struggling to overcome the overwhelm that can come with being a dad?

Lost Purpose or Identity

Being a father can impact your sense of purpose or idnetity. Do you feel like you have lost your way or your sense of self?

Anger, Frustration & Emotions

Each stage of fatherhood brings opportunity for joy, but you may also need to reulate string emotions. Do you feel like you need to cage 'dad-rage'?

Work/Life Balance

Fulfilling your role as a bread-winner while being a present parent isn't easy. Do you feel like work is consistently encroaching on family time, or vice versa?

Diet, Alcohol & Sleep

Being a dad can seriously impact what you put in your body! Are you experiencing negative changes in sleep patterns, eating habits or drinking?

Health & Fitness

As a parent you're responsible for your kids' wellbeing, as well as your own! Are you able to stay fit and active so you can keep up and keep sane?

Disconnection & Relationships

Fatherhood can mean a huge shift in your social life. Do you still feel connected with your partner, friends, family... and, of course, your own kids?!

Personal Growth & Performance

Parenting can make you question your parenting abilities and other abilities. Are you struggling to perform at work, at sport or elsewhere in life?

Discipline, Addiction & Escape

Some dads can feel trapped in dadhood. Do you seek for ways to escape through drugs, gambling, ill-discipline or negative addictions?

Whether you're just starting your family or are a seasoned father still facing some challenges, we can work together so you can enjoy fatherhood and be the dad you want to be.

Start your dadventure today!

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How my own Dadventure allows me to help you with yours

I left art school with dreams of becoming a sculptor, but I was pretty crap at it... and drifted into a career as a designer and creator for some of the world's biggest brands.

While working for a mental health brand, I discovered I could combine creativity with therapy to empower people to reach their healing, health and growth goals. I went back to school and qualified as a Strategic Psychotherapist, Remedial Hypnotherapist, Rapid Results Coach and Death Walker (yep, it's a thing!).

At the same time, as I tackled the challenges of parenthood firsthand, I created a self-coaching program for myself and called it my HBig Dadventure.

Today I help other dads to create their own successful Happy Dad Projects.

Using a bunch of techniques  — such as Rapid Results Coaching, guided meditation, drawing and storytelling — I help dads to clarify their desired goals, establish their values and create sustainable future outcomes aligned with those values.

Whether you've been a parent for years or if you're new to dadding, in just a few weeks, you will become more focused and resilient. You will overcome uncertainty and resistance to make the decisions that get the results you're looking for when it comes to being a happier, healthier and more confident dad.

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